How To Go Through A Female Midlife Crisis
Women are as likely as men to experience midlife crisis. When men get to certain age and realize that life is passing them by, they sometimes want to compensate for all that lost years. Women react differently. All their lives they were mostly preoccupied with needs of others. When they finally have enough time for themselves, they can go through female midlife crisis.
Most women spend most of their lives caring for others. They have children and take care of them, they have husbands that need someone to take care of them, and they have all other things to do and people who rely on them. They usually don't have enough time to have any special interests. Once they finally get that extra time, they don't really know what to do with it.
Working women usually have fewer problems with this type of crisis. They are more than just wives and mothers, they earn their money and they have their own careers. This is really important, even if you don't have any especially interesting job. Maybe your life was harder, but this transition period will probably be easier for you.
Once your children leave your home, you suddenly have too much free time. At first, the house is empty and too big, too silent. If your husband is still working, you can wrap your life around taking care of his needs, but it won't be enough for long. At some point, you will have to find something that will occupy you.
Another problem related to this period of life is accepting physical changes of your face and body. You can still be really attractive, but the fact is that middle aged woman won't stop the traffic. Yesterday you were still young and sexy, and today people see someone else. And you still feel so young inside.
At one point in your life people will inevitably start to perceive you as a middle aged woman. One morning you will realize that your youth is gone, and there is no point in dreaming about new and different life. You simply don't have time or energy to do some things you were putting away for so long.
Now, when you don't have to be at home taking care of others, you can have your own career. The problem is that you have no experience, and most employers hire younger people. You know so many things and you are willing to work and learn, but it is so hard to get a chance. Suddenly, you realize that people around you perceive you as a middle aged woman.
At first, you will be probably shocked. Maybe you'll get depressed or angry at first, but you will probably find a way to pass through this all. The only problem is that women go through their menopause in the same time, and that may cause hormonal imbalance and both physical and psychical problems.
Well, all these things aren't really so bad. They only look like this at first sight. In fact, you are really one great looking, sexy woman, and your ages simply don't matter. You are capable, healthy and strong, full of wonderful ideas and valuable life experience. People will recognize that as soon as you start to act accordingly. Show your potentials and find new interests in your life.
Most women spend most of their lives caring for others. They have children and take care of them, they have husbands that need someone to take care of them, and they have all other things to do and people who rely on them. They usually don't have enough time to have any special interests. Once they finally get that extra time, they don't really know what to do with it.
Working women usually have fewer problems with this type of crisis. They are more than just wives and mothers, they earn their money and they have their own careers. This is really important, even if you don't have any especially interesting job. Maybe your life was harder, but this transition period will probably be easier for you.
Once your children leave your home, you suddenly have too much free time. At first, the house is empty and too big, too silent. If your husband is still working, you can wrap your life around taking care of his needs, but it won't be enough for long. At some point, you will have to find something that will occupy you.
Another problem related to this period of life is accepting physical changes of your face and body. You can still be really attractive, but the fact is that middle aged woman won't stop the traffic. Yesterday you were still young and sexy, and today people see someone else. And you still feel so young inside.
At one point in your life people will inevitably start to perceive you as a middle aged woman. One morning you will realize that your youth is gone, and there is no point in dreaming about new and different life. You simply don't have time or energy to do some things you were putting away for so long.
Now, when you don't have to be at home taking care of others, you can have your own career. The problem is that you have no experience, and most employers hire younger people. You know so many things and you are willing to work and learn, but it is so hard to get a chance. Suddenly, you realize that people around you perceive you as a middle aged woman.
At first, you will be probably shocked. Maybe you'll get depressed or angry at first, but you will probably find a way to pass through this all. The only problem is that women go through their menopause in the same time, and that may cause hormonal imbalance and both physical and psychical problems.
Well, all these things aren't really so bad. They only look like this at first sight. In fact, you are really one great looking, sexy woman, and your ages simply don't matter. You are capable, healthy and strong, full of wonderful ideas and valuable life experience. People will recognize that as soon as you start to act accordingly. Show your potentials and find new interests in your life.
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