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Kamis, 17 Mei 2018

Life And Its Complications With Relationships

Life And Its Complications With Relationships


by Roger Kelly


The pursuit of happiness becomes the hardest expedition in life. Oftentimes, the very thing that would complement a person is by finding someone who can supplement its existence. There is no guarantee to where your heart might lead you. It becomes the quest and adventure alongside.

Along ones journey in life, you start to realize the importance of looking for that somebody to share your whole life with. Sometimes people do not need someone to complete them, just one person who can accept them completely. But there is no perfect relationship, there would be challenges along the way, and as it grows and keeps on, some happen to lose interest and starts struggling with intimacy.

The courtship stage is influenced by a lot of things. One example is with culture, there are cultures that have unified processes in courtship. Some are plainly arranged marriages, the kind that are already arranged by parents even before one knows about it.

Another example is the modern courtship which does not almost include the family in the process, it is typically between two people only and is developed using high technology, cellphones and computers are the common medium in communication. There are even some meet ups that starts from online dating, meeting online and not personally is becoming the new trend of finding the next prospect to involve in a relationship with.

Somewhere down the line there will be disagreements between the couple. The couple might not notice it but slowly they are drifting away from each other until such time they realize it is already too late. Constant fights and arguments often lead to loss of interest for each other.

The worst part is when someone else ignites a new spark. It is all the same feeling all over again but already with a different person. You then start to tell yourself that you cannot just leave a person because your situation is not anymore ideal. However you cannot fight the urge and that spur in your heart, telling you that to find a way out. You already start to picture yourself with somebody else.

One then tries to find some remedy to heal an about to be broken relationship. What comes easy typically would not last long, and what last long would not come easy. Two people need to put both their hands together to rekindle the lost mutual spark. Never leave just because of a few faults, no one is perfect, affection is always greater than perfection.

The moment one becomes fully aware that its existing relationship is now shaky and on the rocks, they try educate their selves and incorporate in their minds that what they are feeling is already wrong. They start to slap their own selves with the idea of loyalty. Feeling sympathy towards their partner is normal, they sure become guilty as if falling out of love is a crime. Yes it is unfair, but questions like, how can it be wrong when it feels so right stands on the side.

Saying I love you is very easy to do but is very hard to prove. Love is a word that has no definite meaning. If you have found the person who you decided to be with for the rest of your life, then fight for it and work hard for it.




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Title: Life And Its Complications With Relationships
Author: Roger Kelly
Email: nathanwebster335@live.com
Keywords: Struggling with intimacy
Word Count: 562
Category: Marriage
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